from 1 to 10 ...
The app
Rate. Reveal. Get Real.
Then talk.
Draw a card. Everyone scores it privately. Reveal together — and when the numbers do not match, the game gives you something specific to say next.
Free questions in every deck. No ads. No subscription.
The numbers show you something.
And Then helps you understand it.
How a round works
The score breaks the ice. The talk is the game.
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01
Draw a card
One question, read out loud. Pick any of the three decks.
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02
Score 1 to 10
Rate yourself, and rate each other. The game teaches you to stay off 5 — a middle answer tells nobody anything.
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And Then
Reveal the numbers together. Where they disagree, the app hands you the follow-up questions that turn a gap into a real conversation.
What that actually looks like
And Then
Explore what that gap tells you.
You said
8
They said
3
Investigate the gaps.
Dare to know the truth.
And Then
Share why you gave the scores you did.
Invite others, if they want, to tell you why they gave you the numbers they gave you.
Three decks
Pick the kind of honesty you want tonight
Each deck has its own questions and its own And Then prompts. Seven questions in each game are free. Add and use your own questions if you like.
Relationship deck
For couples and the people closest to you. The questions you keep meaning to ask.
How open and connected are you with the people you love?
from 1 to 10 ...
Self deck
For friends, roommates and family. Light on the surface, honest underneath.
How honestly do you see the gap between who you are and who you present?
from 1 to 10 ...
Spiritual deck
For small groups who want structure without a lecture.
How willing are you to sit with questions that don't have neat answers?
from 1 to 10 ...
What it costs
Free to play a real night. Pay only if you want more questions.
Free
Every deck, free questions
Enough for many fun filled, full sessions. Play the round, score each other, do the whole And Then. Replay them, switch decks, start again — free stays free.
Plus one "add your own" question, also free.
$4.99
Unlock one deck
The rest of the questions in whichever deck you just played. One payment, that deck is yours. Forever.
Relationship, Self or Spiritual.
$9.99
Unlock all three
Every question in every deck. Cheaper than buying the three separately.
Best value if you play often.
- No subscription. These are one-time purchases.
- No paywall before the fun. We only ask after you have finished the free questions.
- Your purchases follow you. Restore them on a new phone from the App Store or Play Store.
Prices shown in US dollars. Your app store may show a slightly different local amount.
Seven languages
Play in the language you actually talk in
1 to 10 and Then can be played in any of the following languages. If you and your friends or partner speak a different native language, they can play in their language and you can play in yours.
Play for free.
Three decks, free questions in each, no subscription.