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1 to 10 and Then

The search for meaningful conversations.

It began with a simple frustration: deeper talks with the people I love and know me best.

Friends gathered around a kitchen table talking

Beginning

Gossip and catching up weren’t enough.

When friends and family got together, the same topics came up — reminiscing, updates, surface chat. I was in self-discovery and wanted to know what made my circle tick.

Friends playing 1 to 10 and Then in a living room

Inspiration leads to investigation

Write the question. Answer with a number.

In a moment of haste I wrote the question down and asked for only a number from 1 to 10. Suddenly everyone went quiet — and a new kind of conversation began.

It also occurred to me that I had a number for how I perceived their relationship to the same idea. After deep introspection, numbers were written for ourselves and shared with one another. A brand new form of conversation was born.

Friends scoring and talking during game night

Why it works

A number bypasses the usual defenses.

Reducing a belief to a single number creates efficient, intimate conversation — a spectrum, not black and white.

  • Delivers a unique approach to thinking about ourselves.
  • Gets to the heart of who we are and what we believe — quickly.
  • Opens conversations about growth and the obstacles to it.
  • Creates a channel to hear and be heard through useful feedback.

What we do

Better relationships through real connection.

Every lit-up face and story of insight pushes us to share this tool more widely. We hope we can play together.

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